Run...Don't Walk...to the nearest Spa!

Do you have a Caregiver in your life?  A truly giving, compassionate, funny, selfless, amazing, wonderful person who loves you to pieces and does all they can to walk you thru this journey? 

You, the Cared-For, are in a precious position...I know the illness, the trauma, the path you walk is not easy, nor is it of your own choosing.  You feel blessed to have this loved one in your life, granting peace, companionship and hope to you no matter the cost to themselves.  And so, yes, despite the circumstances of your illness, you are in a precious place...

You can extend the most beautiful Grace to your Caregiver.

For it is within your power to leave sweet memories for them, moments they will treasure for ever.

Here's how...

Find something to do together that brings joy to you both, AND, has nothing to do with your illness.

Hard you say?  Not so!

It can be a baseball game, a concert, a trip to the zoo, movies and popcorn, a massage... a gift with no agenda but to spend time together enjoying, not caregiving.  Depending on your strength and particular situation it may take some pondering, but make it a priority to start Legacy Living.

My favorite example is Mom taking me (often) for the most soothing leg massage and pedicure at Cold Water Creek Spa... I absolutely loved the pampering and it was the perfect, non-stressful outing for mom as her strength ebbed.

We went together right up until the last month of her cancer journey.  And it was always her treat.  I think she was gratified to find a way to thank me... I was blessed beyond words to have the time with her to relax, laugh, and live life "normal" away from the harsh reality of the cancer treatment.

And massage is such a great antidote for the Caregiver Stress and Burnout that is inevitable when journeying with a terminal illness.

Run...Don't Walk... to the nearest Spa.  Make memories of peace and relaxation and laughter today with the one you love.  Let the pampering begin!

It is Extending Grace in the most Beautiful Way. 

P.S.  Friend Alert!  Do you know someone who is selflessly tending the needs of a loved one?  Are they becoming over-stressed, burdened-down, and neglecting themselves?  Give the Grace Gift yourself...take them out, treat them to "normal," pamper them special.  Be the Blessing.